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Letting them get bored on purpose

“I’m bored” used to feel like an alarm. Now it feels like the start of something.

Three children sitting in the grass
Photo by Charlein Gracia / Unsplash

For years, "I'm bored" sounded like an emergency in our house. We would rush to fill the gap: an activity, an outing, a screen.

This summer we tried waiting. Ten minutes of sighing on the sofa, then a cardboard box became a shop, then a spaceship, then a hospital for stuffed animals. The games that come out of boredom are always better than the ones we suggest.

Boredom is not an empty space. It is the waiting room of imagination. Our job is mostly to stay out of the way.

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Claire Morel

Guest writer. Collects recipes, rituals and the small things that make a week feel like home.

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